Relationship

THE COST AND CONSEQUENCES OF MASTURBATION

THE COST AND CONSEQUENCES OF MASTURBATION

   Masturbation is one of the issues many singles confront. Amazingly there are also a huge number of married people who also indulge in masturbation. Masturbation is simply the art or practice of fiddling with your reproductive organ, exciting yourself and discharging of fluid (for female) and semen (for men). Sometimes last year, a popular […]

WHEN YOUR FIANCE SAYS: ‘’GET PREGNANT OR FORGET ABOUT WEDDING’’

WHEN YOUR FIANCE SAYS: ‘’GET PREGNANT OR FORGET ABOUT WEDDING’’

We had a great time on air on Sunday 7th June, 2015 on Top Radio 90.9FM discussion programme #Sincerelymen (5.00pm-7.00pm), I am sure those who called in and those who listened in too had interesting time. In the course of the programme, a certain grandma called in to ask the regular relationship pregnancy before marriage […]

ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLE: ADAM WEDS STEVE; HELEN WEDS HELENA

ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLE: ADAM WEDS STEVE; HELEN WEDS HELENA

I believe in God and also respect fundamental Human rights of man as guaranteed by the law or constitution of any country or society. However, I have concerns for any right that conflicts with the right of the creator. Such rights are devilish right and any act that conflicts with the instructions of the creator […]

I AM PHYSICALLY CHALLENGED; HOW DO I FIND LOVE?

I AM PHYSICALLY CHALLENGED; HOW DO I FIND LOVE?

One day, few years back a young lady who was a young Christian convert walked into my office and said; ‘’Sir, I need your advice. I heard God tell me that someone is my husband but the person is physically challenged. He is blind. What do I do?’’ I asked if she was sure it […]

WHY SINGLE LADIES CHASE MARRIED MEN

WHY SINGLE LADIES CHASE MARRIED MEN

After doing the write-ups; WHY MARRIED MEN CHASE SINGLE LADIES and WHY MARRIED WOMEN CHASE SINGLE GUYS, I had promised to do the above but I have not been able to. At some point I even forgot I made the promise earlier, so you have it now. A single lady is any lady that is […]

DON’T BE ASHAMED TO SAY YOU ARE A VIRGIN

A  young university undergraduate many years back once told me how she was rebuked sharply by her then roommate when she said she was a virgin at 24. I understand same fear and shame still permeate the heart of many to disclose their virginity, especially to their wayward peers. Friends, don’t be ashamed or afraid […]

HOW TO FIGHT TEMPTATION AND WIN

HOW TO FIGHT TEMPTATION AND WIN

What is temptation? Have you ever been tempted before? What did you do about it? Did you fall for it or you overcame it? In the fast selling book- FIGHTING TEMPTATION which I wrote and published in 2013, I identified 4 major sources of temptation that is common to all. I also explained how best […]

MY PARENTS DON’T WANT ME TO MARRY A PASTOR, WHAT DO I DO?

MY PARENTS DON’T WANT ME TO MARRY A PASTOR, WHAT DO I DO?

On Sunday, 26th April, 2015 on #Sincerelymen (the popular Top Radio 90.9Fm relatiosnhip talk show) between 5.00pm and 7.00pm was a number of callers, twitts and sms asking me various questions that bother on relationship. However, one striking one was the sms someone sent in saying her parents don’t want her to marry a Pastor. […]

10 REASONS WHY YOU NEED TO ABSTAIN FROM PRE-MARITAL SEX

10 REASONS WHY YOU NEED TO ABSTAIN FROM PRE-MARITAL SEX

  There are many crap out there that encourages people to violate God’s order. They say; ‘’Is it not my body, can’t I do what I like with it?’’ No dear, it is not your body except you have not given your life to Jesus. If you have given your life to Jesus, it means […]

HOW DO I CONTINUE MY LIFE AFTER MY EX?

HOW DO I CONTINUE MY LIFE AFTER MY EX?

In times past I have had the onerous task of encouraging people after their relationships went sour. One dreadful part of relationship is when either of the parties decide to say goodbye. It is more painful when the goodbye is without notice or without concrete explanation. It is usually tough and very challenging a time […]